Dear Fellow Congregants:
In accordance with Article VI, Section 1 of our Constitution and Bylaws, notice is hereby given of Congregation B’nai Tikvah’s semi-annual General Membership Meeting. The meeting will take place in-person on Monday, July 26 at 8:00 p.m. (after minyan).
Our synagogue community has been quite busy, coming out of the pandemic, during the past few months. I encourage you to attend the meeting; read the Vice President reports beforehand (to be sent via email); and ask any questions that you may have. Importantly, it is an opportunity for you to share your thoughts with our leadership on how we can continue to build the ties that bind us as a congregation and community, especially in these very trying times.
The agenda for this meeting is below. The VP Reports are also below.
As always, if you have any questions or concerns, you should feel free to contact Rabbi Wolkoff, Cantor Rockman or any members of the Board of Directors or me () at your convenience.
I, along with our Board Team, look forward to seeing you on the 26th.
Sincerely,
Marty Abschutz
Martin Abschutz
President, Congregation B’nai Tikvah
Congregational Meeting Agenda
- Call to Order (Marty Abschutz)
- Minutes December 2020 (Nancy Asher-Shultz)
- D’var Torah (Rabbi Wolkoff)
- President’s Report
- Young Family Outreach
- Cash Flow (Gary Wesalo)
- VP Updates
- USY Update
- Sisterhood Update
- Men’s Club Update
- Treasurer’s Report (Andy Ross)
- Financial Secretary Update (Larry Cohen)
- Rabbi’s Update (Rabbi Wolkoff)
- Cantor’s Update
- Administrator’s Update (Lesley Lewkowicz)
- Old Business
- New Business
- Slate for the 2021 / 2022 Board (Adrienne Ross)
- 2021-2022 Budget (Gary Wesalo)
- Good and Welfare (Rabbi Wolkoff)
- Adjournment
Vice President Reports
School and Youth Report
School & Youth Report – July 2021 Congregation Meeting
Melissa Kessler and Doug Smoller
Religious School
As expected, the 2nd-half of the 2020-21 Religious School year was a challenging one due to COVID-19. Thankfully, Cantor and his team met the challenge head-on, and with the support of our Religious School parents, made it to the finish line in May. Since then, our focus has been on identifying / developing ways to attract new students and enhance the educational experience for existing ones. The former is especially important given the declining Jewish population in our area (and related decline in Religious School enrollment). As it stands, we anticipate starting the new school year with only 15 students, with another 13 projected for CBT Chai (our High School program). These numbers are not sustainable, which is why, for the past few months, a “CBT Young Family Outreach Group” has been meeting on a regular basis to tackle this issue head-on. Among the key changes we’ve implemented:
Making our Dues Structure more welcoming for young families
- Now, all new member families aged 45 and younger are eligible to receive: o 1st year dues – free o 2nd year dues – 25%
o 3rd year dues – 50%
o 4th year dues – 75%
o 5th year and beyond – full dues - Note: In the past, this offer was limited to families 35 and younger, and families with children in Religious School were not eligible for this discount
Opening our religious school to the entire community
- Now, anyone can enroll their children in our school, even if they are not synagogue members
- This allows us to be more competitive with other local institutions that offer a Jewish religious education without the obligation and expense of synagogue membership
Making Religious School more affordable
- We have reduced Religious School fees significantly for B’nai Tikvah members:
o $180/year for Alef, Bet & Gimel, $360/year for Dalet & Hei, no registration fees - Our Religious School fees are also competitive for non-member families: o $360/year for Alef, Bet & Gimel, $720/year for Dalet & Hei, no registration fees
o Non-member families must join the synagogue, and pay full dues for year leading to their child’s B’nai Mitzvah - We have reduced our B’nai Mitzvah fee from $1,200 to $400, again, to reduce the financial burden for young families, and to remove a potential barrier to parents enrolling their child in Religious School
In addition to these changes, we’ve taken initial steps to better promote the Religious School. This effort is long overdue, and includes everything from increased social media posts and word-of-mouth marketing, to researching (and eventually hiring) a marketing consultant / firm to identify, target and attract new families.
As we move forward, we will share updates re: our efforts and (we hope) our success stories. Next month Cantor will also share more re: his plans and objectives for the 2021-22 school year, which will kick-off on September 12th. In the meantime, special thanks go to the Co-Chairs of our Religious School Committee (Cheryl Crick and Sharon Cohen), and to the entire CBT Young Family Outreach Group, including (in alphabetical order): Nancy Asher-Shultz, Cindy Gittelman, Danny Goldberg, Andrew Goldberger, Steve Juro, Scott Kessler, Lesley Lewkowicz, Cantor Rockman, Stacey Rockman, Joe Plotnick, Kim Riemann, Adrienne Ross, and Amanda Uniman. Note: Our sincere apologies to anyone we accidentally omitted from this list.
Youth Groups – USY / Kadima (NSBUSY)
Under the leadership of our advisor Sydney Sookerman, over the past few years our chapter has won Hagalil Region’s top 3 awards (including, most recently, Chapter of Excellence). Making this more impressive is the fact much of the chapter’s success has come under the cloud of COVID-19. In response, Sydney and her leadership team have kept members engaged via a mix of virtual and socially-distanced events and activities, from a USY-led virtual Shabbat service and a virtual session with the Rabbi about antisemitism – to a tie-dye event in the B’nai Tikvah parking lot and a Lag B’omer bonfire in the Rockman’s backyard. This Spring also saw the election of a new Chapter Board – and the election of 2 of our members to the Hagalil Regional Executive Board (making us the only chapter in the region with 2 officers)! Please join us in congratulating all of our young adult leaders: Bashe Rockman (President), Sarah Wilk (Israel Affairs), Jordyn Weintraub (Social Action / Tikun Olam), Liam Rosen (Membership / Programming), Hannah Cadoff (Communication), and David Farber (Freshman Rep), and for REB, Rebecca Smoller and Rafi Rockman. Please also be on the lookout for regular updates re: upcoming NSBUSY events – many of which will take place in our newly refreshed Youth Lounge (which includes a ‘new’ couch donated by the Blackin family; a large table donated by the Valan family; and a foosball table donated by the Juro family).
Tots to Tweens Programming
In 2019 we partnered with The Jewish Federation in the Heart of New Jersey to become a hub for PJ Library programs. Our goal was – and remains – to reach the greater Jewish community in our area and bring together young Jewish families. Although COVID-19 has impeded our efforts, we hope / anticipate being able to resume limited – and socially-distant – events over the next 6-months. In fact, in May over 60 families attended a PJ Day at the Farm event that B’nai Tikvah organized. The event sold-out in a few hours – leaving a waiting list of families excited for the next opportunity to join us. To this end, we look forward to sharing more with the congregation as new events are added to the calendar. In the meantime, if you have any questions – about PJ Library, the Religious School, and or USY / Kadima, please feel free to contact Doug or Melissa. Until then, our thanks for your continued support as we look to grow the B’nai Tikvah family one child and family at a time.
WAM Report
2020-2021 Activities
Susie Fishbein Cooking Event (Virtual) – June 2020
Trivia Night (Virtual) – August 2020
Trivia Night (Virtual) – November 2020
Comedy Night (Virtual) – November 2020
JNF Scavenger Hunt – January 2021
Trip to Israel (Virtual) –
Fanny Brice: Funny Girl (Virtual) – April 2021
Beatles Jewish Connection (Virtual) – May 2021
Scream Truck for Shavuout – May 2021
The Jewish world of Elvis Presley (Virtual) – June 2021
History of Kosher Deli / Jewish Astronomy Program (Virtual) – June 2021
Come Back to Tikvah Weekend – June 2021
Summer Tot Series – June/July/August 2021
Bi-Weekly Fiber Arts Group – July 2021 (ongoing)
Bike Ride Series – July 2021 & August 2021 (ongoing)
Outdoor Movie Night – August 2021
Monthly Poker – Beginning August 2021 (ongoing)
Adult & Me Yoga – Beginning September 2021
Adult Yoga – Beginning September 2021
2020-2021 Membership
Unfortunately we lost a few members due to moving out of town or death. However, on the positive, we did gain 3 families, including one re-join.
2021-2021 Upcoming Events
Cantor’s 20th Year Honoring – October 29-31, 2022
Dueling Pianos – February 5, 2022
Gala – March 19, 2022
Slate of Officers for 5728 (2021 / 2022)
2021-22 Slate
Executive Committee
Marty Abschutz – President
Charlie Valan – VP Administration
Steve Juro – VP Activities
Renee Juro – VP Membership
Andrew Goldberger – VP Ways and Means
Gordon Heit – VP, Ritual
Melissa Kessler and Doug Smoller – Co-VP School and Youth
Adrienne Ross – Immediate Past President
Officers
Andy Ross – Treasurer
Marc Rosen – Assistant Treasurer
Larry Cohen – Financial Secretary
Nancy Asher-Schultz – Recording Secretary
Trustees (Max 13)
Bobbi Binder
Scott Kessler
Ruth Anne Koenick
David Kozodoy
Bruce London
Dave Offenberg
Joe Plotnick
Kim Riemann
Barry Safeer
Jeff Schwartz
Larry Weber
Gary Wesalo
VP Admin Report
Vice President of Administration Report 2020-2021
Submitted by Charlie Valan – Vice President of Administration
The administration end of B’nai Tikvah has made a great deal of progress, despite the challenges of the pandemic. We have been working to maintain the safety and security within the building and grounds. The process of fortifying our entire security protocols have been completed and happy to report we exhausted all the funds provided to us ($147,500) via the Homeland Security grant we won three years ago.
Communication, Building Maintenance, Chabad School, and Overall Improvements
As our building ages, there are maintenance items that fall upon us. The most important steps we can take is addressing these issues before they become more expensive or result in further decay. In addition, this year we have engaged in a process of accessing our communication on many levels to make improvements and better exchange information with all aspects of the synagogue
- Our new Synagogue Administrator, Lesley Lewkowicz thus far has made her impact felt in many positive ways as she’s embraced our CBT community and has learned how we operate. She has also been feverously working to improve our “way of operations” on many levels.
- Connecting with other synagogues and exchanging ideas
- Improving our electronic communications
- Streamlining our infrastructure and expenses
- Bringing an expanded knowledge of technological innovation to the role
- Given the advancements of our electronic communications, the Board has aligned our creative innovations behind the leadership of Kim Riemann working with The Administration of Lesley and Charlie redesigning and improving our website, constant contact, and other communication forms of reaching out to membership with more to come
- The Weekly Announcements have been reorganized and prioritized in a manner that places emphasis on the most important items upfront
- Streamline the role of this valued communication piece in an effort to simplify reading through it
- We have received equipment and cost estimates to upgrade our aging and technological outdated computer and phone systems
- New systems will allow easier in house, but as critical, satellite and outside secure access to ensure our communications are innovated and consistently available
- Unfortunately, the pandemic has led to delays in equipment availability and these processes will be completed as soon as possible
- The roof over the new wing covering from the gift shop down to the end of that hallway reached the end of its life and was replaced with a quality upgrade that was negotiated at a discounted price. As with all our roofing items, this is under a yearly contract which always provides us emergency patch work and TLC as needed. A flat room presents many challenges and our yearly contract more than pays for itself
- Another one of our HVAC Units reached the end of its life and needed to be replaced, this one down by the last series of classrooms in the newer wing. During that replacement, our HVAC partner looked over the other units and at the moment, everything is operating normally. We can never fully anticipate a unit failure, but always our goal is to invest wisely in what can be saved, but replace when we are just spending “bad money over good”.
- Throughout the COVID pandemic, our protocols and policies continue were consistently updated leading to far fewer health related concerns generated from presence within the building itself.
- Be ensured that the positivity we all have seen regarding the pandemic has and will continue to be addressed as updated information becomes available and we adhere to mirroring the most current guidelines
- If matters call for restrictions in our actions as a family, we will adhere and adjust accordingly
- The communication between us and the Chabad School has been mandated to follow these guidelines
- Documents outlining their own guidelines have been shared throughout the entire past school year. Please note that CBT takes the safety and security very seriously and as we observe violations, we remind all of the importance and are prepared to take any and all necessary steps if it is felt we can’t ensure as safe of a situation, that most importantly protects all our occupants
- Classical Caterers has been significantly impacted during the last fiscal year
- The Board of Directors of B’nai Tikvah recognize and value this long standing partnership and worked very closely with Evan and Classical Caterers to maintain the functionality of their business during this challenging period
- Classical Caterers continued producing meals and services for clients which is critical at this point for not only members that were not able to access kosher meals as they are accustomed, but to maintain their business that was challenged without being able to conduct in house events
- Classical Caterers was able to partnership with outside events that couldn’t be housed here at CBT
Safety and Security Grant
We have thrilled to report that we have been able to complete the remaining critical aspects of the grant, thus improving the safety and security of CBT
- New security lighting was installed in our parking lot and around the entire building grounds; front and back.
- The entire back of school playground, and previous darken areas are now brightly illuminated making it extremely easy to identify any disturbances
- Our parking lot now has bright stadium lightening and the feedback from those experiencing it has been amazing
- We added new lighting by the Caterer’s areas and driveway by the dumpsters ensuring complications to anyone intending to explore those areas
- Additional lights were added by the Sukkor pad which now illuminates the side of the building of our sanctuary.
- A few more minor aspects of the lighting are being completed well by our vendor partner and we hope to complete those shortly
- Our new Fire, Security, and Entry System has been installed as with advance and innovated technology
- The New system is key fob entry
- Each family will receive a complementary key fob from CBT. Please call or email Lesley to obtain yours if you haven’t
- Extra key fob are available for $18. These funds are solely going to be used for the cost of the key fob and maintaining the cost and system for the long term
- This new system is not internet based, but rather satellite based. Why should that matter? Well between that and a strong battery backup across all aspects, CBT will always be securely covered from threats. No wires can be cut and power failures of any type can’t intercept our abilities to be always protected
- The New system is key fob entry
VP Ritual Report
VP Ritual Report – Gordon Heit
January – June 2021
This year has been very difficult because of the COVID. At the beginning of the year there were no in person services. All services had to be Zoomed. The first in person service was for Scott Cohen’s Bar Mitzvah on January 16 where we had a very small in person service (wear mask and socially distancing) that was streamed using StreamSpot.
For Purim February 24 we zoomed the evening service and had a small in person morning service that we zoomed. We continued to zoom Friday evening service starting the jump into shabbot program lead by Bobbi Binder, Stacey Rockman, and Bashi Rockman.
We started to open up with Ethan Goldberger’s Bar Mitvah had about 25 person attended with masks and socially distancing. Passover morning service with 15 persons. We had a limited attendance for the remaining Bar/Bat Mitzvah and started have in person Shabbot morning service and Sunday morning services.
Shavuot – May 16, 17, 18- Ice Cream Truck Sunday May 16. Evening in person service May 16 following by leaning together at CBT, mask wearing and social distancing require. It is highly recommended that only persons that are fully vaccinated attend. Morning services May 17 and May 18. Yizkor on May 18.
After the “Back to Tikvah Weekend” June 15-16 we started to have daily evening services. June 28 we ended the mask mandate but required proof of vaccination. We are planning to start to allow Shabbot lunches starting in September.
For the High Holidays we are planning on streaming an in person service. You will not need to wear a mask if you show proof of vaccination. We plan to shorten the service and to spread it out by having a large TV in the Kiddush Room. We will be having in person Junior Congregation. The plans for Torah for Tot has not been determined. We may have to change our plans as the situation changes.